Let’s Stay Together: Comparing Retirement Communities for Different Care Needs

Couples who have been together for decades have a deep bond and a desire to continue living together in a retirement community. When individual care needs vary, many retirement communities, such as Country Meadows, strive to support and accommodate these long-term relationships.

Factors to keep in mind when comparing retirement communities

Levels of care: Look for communities that provide various levels of assistance and support, such as independent living, personal care, memory support and skilled nursing, when comparing retirement communities. For example, if one member of a couple requires more assistance with activities of daily living, the retirement community may provide assistance with tasks such as bathing, dressing and medication management. At the same time, the other member of the couple may be able to live more independently and take advantage of social activities and amenities.

Having several levels of care on the same campus can allow couples to continue living together while accessing the appropriate level of care for each individual’s needs.

Shared living: Inquire about policies regarding shared living arrangements for couples with different care needs when comparing retirement communities. Ask whether it’s possible for one partner to receive care and support within the same living unit or nearby, allowing the couple to remain together.

Location: Consider the location when comparing retirement communities. Is it in a desirable area close to amenities, healthcare facilities and social activities? Think about your proximity to family and friends as well.

Support services: When comparing retirement communities, consider the level of healthcare and support services available within the community. Does it have on-site healthcare professionals, access to medical care, assistance with activities of daily living and emergency response systems? Evaluate whether the community can meet current and future healthcare needs for both partners.

Amenities and services: Assess the amenities and services offered when comparing retirement communities. Look for facilities offering things that are important to both individuals to meet varying hobbies and interests. These might include fitness centers, swimming pools, libraries, social and recreational activities, transportation services, housekeeping and maintenance. Determine which amenities are important to you and match your lifestyle.

Dining options: Food is one of life’s great indulgences, so when comparing retirement communities, also compare meal quality. How many meals are offered each day? Are snacks and guest meals available? Are various dietary needs accommodated? Make arrangements to have a meal at retirement communities you are seriously considering to, literally, get a taste of that lifestyle.

Housing options: When comparing retirement communities, explore the range of housing accommodations available, such as all-rental apartments, villas, townhomes or cottages. Consider the size, layout and features of the units. Evaluate whether the accommodations suit your preferences, offer enough room for two individuals and any potential future needs, such as accessibility or modifications.

Financial considerations: When comparing retirement communities, you may come across many financial models which may be confusing. Understand the costs involved with each care level, including upfront fees, monthly rental and additional charges for services or amenities. Review the financial stability of the community and consider long-term affordability.

Emotional and spiritual support: At Country Meadows, on-staff chaplains offer counseling and services honoring various spiritual traditions. When comparing retirement communities, look for those that provide emotional support and counseling for couples to help navigate the challenges and transitions of aging together.

Community culture and activities: Understand the community culture and the types of activities and social events offered when comparing retirement communities. Attend community events to get a sense of the atmosphere and the opportunity to engage with other residents. Determine if the community aligns with your interests and promotes an active and fulfilling lifestyle.

Resident feedback and reviews: Seek out feedback from current residents and their families and read online reviews. When comparing retirement communities, these simple inquiries can provide insights into the experiences of those already living in the community.

Staff and management: When comparing retirement communities, you will probably meet with members of the marketing and management teams during your initial visit. Be sure to note their friendliness, responsiveness and professionalism. Inquire about staff-to-resident ratios and the availability of co-workers for assistance and support.

By considering these factors, you can make a more informed decision when comparing retirement communities to find one that aligns with both partners’ lifestyle, preferences and needs. It’s important to visit multiple locations, ask questions and involve both partners in the decision-making process to find the best fit.

Country Meadows has nine locations in Pennsylvania and one campus in Frederick, Maryland. We offer a wide range of services to serve a variety of resident needs including restorative care, rehabilitation, personal care and assisted living, memory support and independent living services. If you or a loved one are beginning the retirement planning journey and would like more information about our communities, please contact us today. We’re here to help.