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A Lifetime of Love
Love, companionship and commitment. Our residents’ and co-workers’ love stories warm our hearts and inspire our own journeys. Enjoy reading how they met, their lasting bonds and advice for couples.
She had a smile and quite a line, this country boy thought it was fine;
Away at school, his heart would pine, to hug and kiss would be divine.But after all this single bliss, which I confess, I really miss;
I didn’t know it would be like this, with those few words, sealed with a kiss.~ Excerpts from a love poem the late Governor Leader wrote for his beloved wife of 72 years, Mary Jane
(Country Meadows’ founders)
Hal and Pat
In the vibrant halls of Manchester High School, amidst the roar of basketball games, Hal and Pat’s love story unfolded. United by their love for sports, they quickly became inseparable (Hal even joined Pat’s family bakery soon after they began dating). Their bond deepened over the years, weathering life’s highs and lows with unwavering devotion. When asked if they ever thought they would be married for 70+ years, they simply nodded in unison, affirming, “Oh yes!” Their lasting love symbolizes the power of true love with their hearts forever entwined in a journey that spans a lifetime.
Gary and Bev
Gary and Bev’s endearing connection, marked by Gary’s affectionate nickname “Peach” for Bev, radiates with love and care. They both had a challenging home life growing up, maturing them beyond their years. Meeting at 20 with prior marriages and parenthood behind them, they found strength in their shared journey. Gary’s adoption of Bev’s son underscored their commitment to creating a stable, loving family—a dream they longed for. Now, as they approach their 64th anniversary, their legacy of resilience and devotion lives on in their children and grandchildren, a testament to the enduring power of love.
Don and Marie
Don and Marie’s story unfolds within the comfortable lifestyle at Country Meadows, their shared home in Independent Living. Their connection sparked when Don learned Marie needed a ride to the store. While only acquaintances at the time, this simple act of kindness revealed an immediate connection as they discovered meaningful commonalities during their outing. From that moment on, they “just clicked,” enjoying live music events, social gatherings and occasional movie nights together. Beyond their own companionship, Don’s willingness to assist Marie underscores their mutual support and care, setting a heartwarming example for their neighbors at Country Meadows.
Richard and Doris
Richard and Doris’s enduring love story spans an incredible 71 years, offering invaluable lessons in forgiveness and commitment. Reflecting on their remarkable journey, Richard shares simple yet profound advice: “You’ll have disagreements, but it’s important to make up and come back together.” Their story began in childhood, growing up in the same neighborhood and attending the same school. It wasn’t until Richard returned from the Army at 21 that their friendship blossomed into a lifelong romance. From their adventures on ski trips and the West Coast to everyday moments of shared laughter, Richard and Doris exemplify a deep and enduring relationship. Despite life’s challenges, their care and devotion for each other bind their love.
Peter and Vicki
Peter and Vicki embarked on their lifetime journey on September 1, 1951, a union of an incredible 71 years. Their story started at a Knights of Columbus Dance where a chance introduction sparked a connection. Despite a humorous misunderstanding during their first encounter, they soon found themselves drawn to each other, dating for six months before tying the knot. Together, they raised three children—two sons and a daughter—and shared countless adventures filled with travel and laughter. Known for their love of parties and creating cherished memories, Peter and Vicki’s secret to a strong relationship is simple yet profound: “If you argue, get over it quickly.” This sage advice reflects their commitment to resolving conflicts swiftly, allowing their love to last with grace and resilience.
Nevin and Marjorie
Nevin and Marjorie were married on August 9, 1952, and have been together ever since. They first met in 9th grade at former Fountain Hill High School. They started dating during their senior year. Even though they went to different colleges, they made sure to see each other during breaks and holidays. Marjorie even moved to Philadelphia to be with Nevin while he was studying to become a dentist. Later, Nevin served in the Navy as a dentist. And they have been together ever since.
Hubert (Duke) and Joanne
Hubert (Duke) and Joanne’s love story began at a church function in March 1942, and they soon started dating. Just a year later at 17, they wed. Shortly after, Duke joined the Navy to serve in WWII. Duke fondly recalls knowing Joanne was “the one” from the moment they met. Together, they were blessed with seven children, although tragically one son passed away. When asked about the secret to their long marriage, Duke simply states: “You take the good with the bad, you support one another and you are kind to each other.” These words exemplify their commitment to each other. Celebrating 80 years together, Duke and Joanne’s love story is truly remarkable and inspirational.
Jack and Mary Lou
Jack and Mary Lou have been together for 64 years, showing that love can be found in unexpected places. They first met while working at the Falk Clinic and quickly fell for each other. Their love for each other began during a stormy day when Jack offered Mary Lou a ride home to keep her safe. Since then, they’ve enjoyed raising their children and making memories. Now, living at Country Meadows, they cherish each moment of retirement surrounded by family and gratitude for the love that brought them together all those years ago.
Clyde and Mimi
Clyde and Mimi, married for 71 years, found solace in each other’s company. Their bond began when Clyde respectfully asked Mimi out after she broke up with a mutual friend. Now, with children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, they navigate their new home at Country Meadows, cherishing shared passions and the comfort of their lasting union. As they settle into their golden years, Clyde and Mimi’s love remains a steadfast beacon, illuminating the path of their extraordinary journey together.
Joe and Bebe
Joe and Bebe met in 1957 while working at Mack Printing, and their story took off from there. Their first date was a dance, and soon after, Joe proposed to Bebe on Christmas Eve over dinner, which she happily accepted. They got married in June 1959 at St. Anthony’s in Easton, Pa., and enjoyed their honeymoon in New England. With four children, they spent over 30 years making memories on family vacations in Stone Harbor. As their kids grew up, they started traveling together, exploring places like Germany, Scotland, France, Venice, Sicily and going on several cruises, cherishing every moment spent together.
Fred and Janet
Fred and Janet share a sweet story that began with a chance encounter around Bridgeville, Pa. Janet first noticed Fred’s nice smile and cute demeanor, leading to a double date that turned into just the two of them. With a little kiss, Janet made the first move, sparking a romance that led to their engagement just seven months later. Despite some initial disapproval from Janet’s family and Fred’s late revelation of his own, they eloped and built a beautiful life together, raising two dear sons. Their love for scary movies at the drive-in and dining out together filled their days with joy, but they acknowledge love takes hard work. Janet finds solace in reading her Bible during tough times, while Fred humorously admits to hiding in the garage during disagreements.
Lee and Mary
Lee and Mary’s love began in the summer of 1964 at the Rosslyn Inn where they danced the nights away. Despite a brief hiatus the following winter, Lee’s persistence paid off when he called Mary again the next summer. Overcoming a small hiccup with another suitor, Lee won Mary’s heart with his charm and unwavering devotion. They exchanged vows on September 14, 1968, in a beautiful ceremony at St. Bernard’s Catholic Church followed by a joyous reception with 250 guests. Over the years, they welcomed four children and faced life’s challenges together with their love growing stronger each passing day. With Lee’s admiration for Mary’s beauty and Mary’s appreciation for Lee’s kindness and support, their lasting love is a testament to the power of true companionship and unwavering devotion.
Stanley and Janet
Stanley and Janet, a couple whose bond transcends time and challenges. Despite initially knowing each other through family ties, their love story truly began when they found support from each other after leaving abusive relationships. Together, they formed their own modern-day Brady Bunch, blending their families and creating a foundation of love and companionship. Now married for 47 years, their enduring love is palpable as Stanley joins Janet for every meal in our Connections Memory Support Services neighborhood—proof of their deep affection for each other.
Richard and Elsie
Meet Richard and Elsie, a loving couple who met in 1978 at a singles club called the Solo Parents where Richard charmed Elsie with his dance moves. Despite the odds of a limited number of men, Richard made sure to dance with every woman before asking Elsie to join him on the dance floor, where they were a perfect fit. After six or seven dates, they knew they were meant to be together, and they’ve been happily married for 45 years, still showing their love and devotion to each other every day.
Dewey and Pamela
Dewey, our dedicated Director of Maintenance, and Pamela, our compassionate Assistant Director of Nursing at our South Hills of Pittsburgh campus, share a beautiful love story that began in November 2009. They found love through mutual friends, and by January 2010, they had moved in together, blending their lives seamlessly. Dewey’s long-awaited proposal finally came on Christmas of 2019, leading to their wedding on May 12, 2023, despite the challenges of the COVID pandemic. Working side by side at Country Meadows, Dewey and Pamela make a remarkable team, not only in their campus roles but also in their shared passions for watching movies and traveling. In spite of Dewey’s control of the remote, they always find the perfect film to enjoy together on movie nights. Their love for travel is represented in their collection of Christmas ornaments from around the world as they aim to tick off every state on their United States map, symbolizing their journey together through life’s adventures.
Matt and Brooke
#FromAlleyToAisle is the hashtag Brooke, Dining Services Manager at our York-West campus, uses to describe her love story. When looking for a substitute for her bowling team one night, a teammate suggested her cousin, Matt. And as Brooke describes it, when he walked up, she had “hearts in my eyes.” He soon became an official team mate and six months later, her soul mate. At their two-year anniversary in 2021, Matt proposed in front of the Bellagio Fountains in Las Vegas when they were in town for their first National Bowling Tournament together, and a year later, they were married. Their reception was adorned with hints of bowling themes: guests signed two bowling pins from the bowling alley where they met and a cake topper with a bride and groom holding bowling balls. Their union is a perfect “strike.”
Ein, our Four–Legged Friend
In her heartwarming tail, er, tale, our beloved furry friend, Ein, brings joy to the York-West campus every day. Known for her kindness and caring ways, Ein is always there to comfort residents if feeling down. Whether it’s snuggling up close or playing games to cheer them, Ein’s love knows no bounds. She’s not just a pet; she’s family, bringing warmth and happiness to everyone in our Connections Memory Support Services Neighborhood and Club. With Ein by our side, every day is filled with love, laughter and precious moments residents and co-workers will cherish forever. (Thanks to Laura, Connections Club Coordinator and Ein’s mom, for bringing her every day to campus.)
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